I am still wondering about how to communicate effectively with people. Is it really wrong to communicate bluntly because you felt that was right/what you wanted to do? Or should we still maintain that distance and impersonal feeling that the internet perpetuates?

I have no idea. I still tactless. blunt. Some who are more kind-hearted will say I'm honest. But I'm just a rude person who doesn't know when he oversteps the line.

Hopefully those that I 'offended' will understand where I came from. Maybe not. Maybe that's why I'm just an  unpopular kid in school, not of those that everyone knows their names.

But are they really that friendly? I can't see how a person can remain that friendly for 24/7. I will go bonkers. People will just take advantage of your goodwill. Or maybe they just do it. Afterall, some people feel that it is a joy to help others.

I am not saying the point of view they have is flawed. But sometimes I question the motives of those who ask for help.

But I digress. Just hope she understands.

A slip of tongue is all it takes to destroy friendships. After all, friendship is like a porcelain vase. Once broken, it can never be restored to each original condition, no matter how hard you try.

If she doesn't, I just lost another one in my ever shrinking pool of friends.